How to find a friend at school

Often children, coming from school in tears, close in their room and do not want to explain to parents what happened. Tears gradually turn into a real tantrum. With difficulty, parents manage to find out that the reason was a quarrel with a classmate or that the child was not honored to attend the birthday of his schoolmate. Parents cannot interfere in the relationship of children, but they can always give advice and help to fix something.

Instruction manual

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Do not let your child become a black sheep or an outcast. "White crows" are considered excellent students who are only interested in learning and too obedient children. If such problems have arisen, then let the child know that you will not mind if he takes part in any fun activities and at the same time gets dirty or loses the button. There are "rejected" children at school who are considered "stupid." Such a child has a normal intellect, but slowly thinks. To get rid of loneliness, “rejected” should try to make friends with the most tolerant children in the class. You can also invite such a child to attend school circles and sections. Common interests bring children together.

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Analyze all your actions about raising a child, consult a psychologist. Help your child build normal relationships with peers and find a true friend. In no case do not criticize his behavior. The child may become isolated and sleep poorly at night.

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Teach your child to talk with peers correctly, not to be intrusive. No one wants to communicate with a child who is constantly rude and resentful of the most innocent joke. And if the school life is deprived of communication, then we can’t avoid alienation from school.

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Do not interfere with the child in the study of interpersonal relationships, do not enclose him from communication with peers from early childhood. Respect your child’s personality. Children should play as much as possible with other children on the street, and not be guarded by their relatives, who literally blow off dust particles from them. It’s hard to find children worthy of friendship. But do not forbid the child to communicate with anyone. No one should feel inferior.

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Do not create artificial rest for your child. Invite guests home, as an example of your communication, the child’s relationships will be formed. When gathering with your child, for example, in a circus or theater, invite other children and classmates, if possible.