10 Tips for Listening to Your Baby

Sometimes we admire the teacher in the kindergarten, who cleverly manages twenty kids, without passing to the cry and punishment system. Why can children obey one adult, and another - to behave unbearably, despite all the prohibitions?

Instruction manual

one

Your voice should be calm, even, quiet. The pronunciation is clear, the speech is literate without jargon, parasitic words and obscene words.

2

Do not allow much repetition in your speech with your child. Repeat your request twice and no more.

3

Refer to the baby by name.

4

Do not allow in your behavior that forbid your child. Own example is the best way to instill the right skills.

5

Treat the child with respect, as an adult, do not lisp.

6

Do not discuss the behavior of the child at all, tell me why you are unhappy in private with him. But the praise is better to say before the audience, creating a situation of success.

7

Do not give a general assessment to the baby, express an opinion only on the last act, preserving his self-esteem.

eight

Expressing the request of the little man does not need to be intimidated by punishments, reinforce success in the promotion. For example, "Please collect toys, and we will paint in your new coloring!"

9

If you promised to punish - punish. Otherwise, the child will not believe you next time and will continue to play pranks. Punishment should not degrade and must necessarily be accompanied by an explanatory conversation.

ten

Do not compare your child with another. Using this method of communication, you can lose credibility in the eyes of the baby.